tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15194220.post7232933801468610898..comments2023-12-23T23:33:55.929-05:00Comments on Heo Cwaeth: Speaking of PandarusHeohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15790601758953554870noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15194220.post-41450176588410195622007-04-13T00:19:00.000-04:002007-04-13T00:19:00.000-04:00I agree with Bardiac. Sounds like you were very re...I agree with Bardiac. Sounds like you were very reasonable.<BR/><BR/>Why is it exactly that men are emotionall wounded when women object to being treated like sub-human sex toys? What is it about a woman having a mind and some sense of self-respect or humanity that is injurious to the male of the species?<BR/><BR/>9th of April was Amazon day. I wish I'd made a post for that. Oh well, the ritual will have to do. ;-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15194220.post-78396470939052295672007-04-03T18:33:00.000-04:002007-04-03T18:33:00.000-04:00Go, Aunt Heo!Go, Aunt Heo!Anniinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11293294133521209973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15194220.post-2451397087215977642007-04-02T12:12:00.000-04:002007-04-02T12:12:00.000-04:00Absolutely!I'm trying to watch this in myself, act...Absolutely!<BR/><BR/>I'm trying to watch this in myself, actually, when it comes to babies and gender socialization (my only niece is two, and my nephews are 7, 4, 3 and 1).<BR/><BR/>It's really much "easier" (i.e., more knee-jerk) to say "what a pretty girl" than "what a bright child" or "what an inquisitive baby".<BR/><BR/>This is obviously not sexualization, but the socialization is part of the structure that supports the sexualization, once they hit that "nubile" *grrr* state.<BR/><BR/>*womenaren'ttherejusttobeyoursexobjectsdammit!!!*<BR/><BR/>*ahem*<BR/><BR/>It's good to get pissed at stuff like this. GOOD.Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07286619848356396425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15194220.post-57048426221687711382007-04-02T11:46:00.000-04:002007-04-02T11:46:00.000-04:00Yay! I love this story!Yay! I love this story!squadratomagicohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07977502780584567298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15194220.post-41986686602138511412007-04-02T09:12:00.000-04:002007-04-02T09:12:00.000-04:00Sounds like you contained yourself quite well if o...Sounds like you contained yourself quite well if only his feelings were hurt.Bardiachttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11846065504793800266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15194220.post-59957275375739967562007-04-01T23:15:00.000-04:002007-04-01T23:15:00.000-04:00I have the same problem with my 7-years-younger-th...I have the same problem with my 7-years-younger-than-me sister. Just a couple of male friends would suddenly be interested in visiting me when she was visiting. Actually, I would still have this problem, if <BR/>1. I advertised her visits, and <BR/>2. She hadn't developed quite such a lovely, acerbic, out-there personality.Alexandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00478842515011378244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15194220.post-21965033498617934432007-04-01T22:00:00.000-04:002007-04-01T22:00:00.000-04:00When I had my PhD party, I took some of my friends...When I had my PhD party, I took some of my friends aside and said, 'there will be a very pretty 17-year-old at this party. she's my niece, and if you so much as drool discretely over her, you'll be picking up your teeth off the floor.' Worked like a charm...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15194220.post-35511354541298151812007-04-01T21:05:00.000-04:002007-04-01T21:05:00.000-04:00Gah, I hated that when working child care how some...Gah, I hated that when working child care how some of my co-workers would call the boys smart and brave, etc, but the girls were always cute, pretty, and adoreable.<BR/><BR/>You had every right to be ticked off.History Geekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04253687974407447459noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15194220.post-76783654316555329762007-04-01T11:22:00.000-04:002007-04-01T11:22:00.000-04:00open up a can of "whoop-ass" on his feminist-esque...open up a can of "whoop-ass" on his feminist-esque little bum!medieval womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00457130525946143002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15194220.post-84388563318775080372007-04-01T08:33:00.000-04:002007-04-01T08:33:00.000-04:00Amen.Sometimes the fee-fees have to get hurt for t...Amen.<BR/><BR/>Sometimes the fee-fees have to get hurt for the consciousness to get raised. And even if Mr. "Feminist" doesn't learn the lesson, yep, we gotta protect our girls. So screw his fee-fees, anyway.Ancrene Wiseasshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02075637582360688845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15194220.post-30956179469347428612007-04-01T08:30:00.000-04:002007-04-01T08:30:00.000-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.thebluestockinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09093068115564107977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15194220.post-75297729016587045262007-04-01T06:23:00.000-04:002007-04-01T06:23:00.000-04:00Yeah. Right on. His behavior is unbelievable (or a...Yeah. Right on. His behavior is unbelievable (or all too believable, sadly).heu mihihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08529298049179816825noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15194220.post-51477666826993224862007-04-01T02:53:00.000-04:002007-04-01T02:53:00.000-04:00You go, Auntie.You go, Auntie.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com